Saturday, February 2, 2008

The Other Woman

Let us face
The other woman is always hated
The other woman is bad, mad and sad

But the other woman is actually a lot more women than we admit

i know friends who sleep with married men, and friends who sleep with guys who have girfriends
I know friends who even DATE as opposed to just sleep with them once or twice

I haven't
Done either
Not with married, nor with someone with a girlfriend

I think with me, it began with the perception that married people were old in some way
Until i started meeting cool and funny YOUNG married men
They were cool
And they were unavailable

I still havn't lost it, but i think that sometimes, it must be God watching over me and ensuring that nothing goes wrong

As for guys with girlfriends, thankfully, that is still a no
But come on, am i honestly saying that it will NEVER happen?

Yeah i hope so
But it always feels that when a man is not married nor engaged, then the rules are not so stringent
You know?

Like with this guy
Graceful as hell
(is hell graceful)
But he got a girlfriend
So nothing

I pray